Unravelling the instinctual
Language is extremely intuitive. I didn't realise this until I started reading a textbook that pointed out how we constantly put together new sentences all the time and understand all the various sentences we read or hear. We learn words, not phrases or sentences, yet we somehow manage to string all those words together to form sentences with meaning. And when others do the same, we actually understand what they are saying.
Even better, we understand sentences that aren't plausible or don't make sense -- like, "The blind man was dazzled by her blonde hair." We know perfectly well what the sentence means, although it makes us scratch our heads and wonder whether the writer was sober when he wrote it.
The idea is that we manage to communicate in this way because we all have some knowledge of grammar. Arrange words in the 'proper' sequence, and the hearer / reader recognises this sequence and gets what the speaker / writer is trying to say.
But I say language is intuitive, because we don't know that we have this grammatical knowledge or that we're putting it to use every single day of our lives. We see no reason to explain why we place certain words in certain places; all we care about is that those words belong there. We compose and decipher sentences without a second thought, taking it for granted that we should understand each other. We don't realise the depth of knowledge that it takes for us to be able to process all these things in our heads.
Likewise, the way we produce sounds and string the various sounds together to form words -- it's all intuitive. We speak without thinking about the way our lips or tongue are moving.
Scientists can't stand this; they want to figure out how sounds are made and speech is born, how words are formed, how we put sentences together. So they try to break everything down to the very basics, and in doing so, create all sorts of terms, which I now have to learn. For instance, when making the 'b' sound, both lips come together, so it's called a 'bilabial' sound. Thank goodness the label makes sense to me, or I would have the hardest time remembering it!
